田馥甄 - My Love

如果你被他傷得很痛
請感謝他好心折磨
如果你對他感到愧疚
請感謝他慷慨磊落
在我們相遇相愛之前
多虧有他讓你承受
如果你現在孤獨沉默
請感謝這美麗等候
如果你還在為愛犯錯
請感謝還沒找到我
要走完美的聚焦路口
我們才懂愛是折磨
woo woo my love
woo woo woo my love
如果慶幸我值得擁有
請感謝我被放棄過
如果欣賞我堅強溫柔
請感謝那珍貴傷口
在我們相遇相愛之後
遺憾都會變成守候
woo woo my love
woo woo woo my love
等我們終於緊緊相擁
所有苦難會將沒結果
我們就耐心交流
愛會來的在對的時候
woo woo my love
woo woo woo my love
woo woo my love
woo woo woo my love

Since the loud speaker is just right beside me at the Fashion house, I have been listening quite a few time to this song and what the singer shared on her feelings.

For those who managed to make their first ever relationship lasted till now (and more time to go in the future), I guessed u guys are damned lucky- to have found the right person in the first try?!

I have friends who got together right after SPM and still going strong even though they were in not in the same country most of the time. Yes, I am envious over their strong bonds.

(I am not sure whether this guy friend noticed or not-most probably not I guess- that I find his polite disapproval over homosexuality, unfortunately, upset me (though no much lah). U and yr lovely wonderful girl friend have made a living example for me to believe that real love existed, and that long distance relationship is not impossible; but dude, do u know that you are killing my love stories?)

I have had a few relationship with guys. And I have found each and every one of them- educational and inspiring. I did hate them initially, but eventually I acknowledge their flaws, as well as mine, when it comes to managing a relationship. Hence, we are still friends instead of foes.

(I shall shut my mouth and try hard to disclose any issues that has connection with others~ I learned :-) And if you are reading, I hope yr monk bf did not give up his noble vegetarian diet because of u, or else, both of u go to HELL! *Ops, the bitch has slipped out it's tail, sorry~ )

Right now, after gaining experience from previous relationships, I have managed to come out with an outline for love and relationship. Never do I dare to say that I know a lot, but at least it is better than the last time. For example: NO ride-on-the-cow-while-searching-for-the-horse (a Cantonese proverb that means clinging on something not that good, when the better choice has shown up, it will be time to say bye bye... which is something not so responsible * I have done that unfortunately~)

In fact, I am very thankful over my exs. Without u guys, I wouldn't be the person I am today :-) I have learned to manage, to let go, to forgive and ultimately, TO LOVE :-)

What is LOVE actually? Can we measure it?

Guess it would be way too boring to have figured out the entire wisdom at the age of 23, but I guess I am near to the answer :-)

Hmm... finding the answer hand in hand with my flings, exs, many bfs and THE future hubby... not bad huh~ Haha~

: : 愛會來的在對的時候 : :

(Love will come at the right time)

~It's all right Mr Straight, I will love myself, I promise~