The now near-prime gay

To start with, I don’t even have a definite standard (perhaps something like a Kinsey scale) to measure the prime-ness, despite I have always been citing THE gary nobita as the prime gay.

According to my lawyer friend (who has brilliantly established the phrase) prime gay has very high profile in the community; well-known for their talents, success, good looks, glamorous life style and the unmistakenly, publicity on FB.

To my superficial judgment, prime gay has always been rather superficial in relationship as they can simply change partners and have the tendency to engage themselves on sexual affairs. In general, nothing really positive in the way they manage relationships la.

So I have read his blog (kinda surprised that he actually writes a blog, a Chinese blog la). From a humble position, he strove hard through the hardship. Eventually he found himself a better job that paid him handsomely for his effort and determination. From a skinny chubby face nerd to a good looking hunk today, I have to say I’m a very much impressed. (too bad, he is taken.)

However, what surprised me to most is his view towards his family and relationship. He loved his mom very very fucking much. I have seen how he has spoken to his mom, like friends. But no, it is deeper, he is determined to bring her on an oversea trip; which is why he worked hard.

On relationship, like me, he has fallen deeply to someone. He put effort to the guy he loved, but to no avail, he ended with nothing. Cried, hurt, gone through that playful singlehood. Well, he has a very loving bf now. He told me he valued his bf for the stability and security the guy can provide. He wanted to establish this long term relationship.

Looking back to myself, I am currently engage in the playful singlehood, I hope it will end very soon with the right person walking into my life to seize everything. To be able to wake up seeing him beside me, kissing him on the forehead before closing my eyes at the end of the day. To feed him, to steal his food, to hug him, to kiss him, to hold his hand on and off in the public, to him feeling happy being together with me.

Now, I need to work hard. Suddenly my mind kena interrupted, need to study Liao. I want a bf in 2014. Period. I wanna be a prime gay. Lol.

Ps: The now near-prime gay is referring to my friend.