15 years together.

Grindr and JackD are usually more exciting on festive seasons back in hometown. And so thanks to Grindr, I met this 37 years old man, with his romantic story living with another man for a freaking 15-year.

The story started with his sacred birthday wish (Waseh, sacred some more!) at his 20 years old when he first ventured into the foreign land of Singapore. Not long after that, his wish was granted with the dramatic bump-into a then-cycling-hot-muscular-mature man at some park. They had sex, which was perfectly normal, then they hang out, then he was jobless, then he moved into his house, and everything didn’t change until now, with their consistent weekly sex. (And I went: huh don’t you get bored having sex with the same person for that freaking 15 years??? Unfortunately, the answer was of no surprise, he has notti times.)

We chatted for almost 2 hours at a nearby park because we do not want to join the party in Starbucks and Old Town Kopitiam. (I tapao for the first time in Old Town Kopitiam) We peed under a pinang tree because it is unlikely to find a toilet at 12:30am nearby. His size was not bad. He joked that his little brader is still resting, he will grow larger when he is wide awake. LOL. We went back after that.

Despite not having very high qualification and his liking towards ah-beng style, he has harbored pretty interesting thoughts.

On his relationship with an elder man, he has kept it as low profile as possible. He finds the attention towards his private life unnecessary. If asked, he would reply with this: Is my private life bothering you? If so you’re welcomed to leave, it is none of my business. He finds no benefit to his life by announcing it to the rest of the world despite in agreement with the fact that it would save the hassle of handling the mentioned situation.

On sexuality, he believed it is in-born. If one is straight, one will remain as straight. We both agreed that there is no such thing as bisexual.

On future life, he said there is no need to rely on any success stories in gay relationship. He will build his own story. He will make things possible for himself. (I went Waseh again hearing this. Man daooo~)

Talking to him has made me realized that I am not as adventurous as I have thought myself to me. I am still pretty much fact based. Like what my ex-boss said, I am one of the many outcome of the late Malaysian education system. FUCK! But look on the bright side, I have found ways to counter the effect.

I am glad that I have met him. (He called me cutie. Muahahaa!) I am excited on the next improvement in my life. Life is awesome and life is great!

“Ah Pei come eat lunch liao!”- mom calling liao